Has anything changed?

Even the holidays couldnt stop the crazies from setting off their own fireworks to fan the chaos in the Middle East. So far 34,452 Iraqi civilians have been killed in 2006.
These days I dont know why it is still such a shock to read about the violence. Hate to generalize, but a majority of the Arab world doesnt seem to want peace. Not that..

--hundreds of years in warring history;
--the continued conflicts between Sunnis and Shias;
--the disgruntled Lebanese over their 20 year civil war with Israel ;
--Iran discreetly forming its own version of Zion;
--Syria continuing to deny its conspiracies with terrorist groups and economic interests in Lebanon;
--Palestine

...are any indication that they dont want peace or recognize the path to it. But perhaps my sarcasm or facetiousness is not all that far fetched.
I marvel at how they quickly can point to the U.S. for being so involved in their politics when even they can't even seem to gain each other's trust in working together. The Iraqi government can't even move an inch without blaming the U.S. and yet after all the help they get, they cant even control their own people from quelling sectarian violence. Shias and Sunnis are killing each other, blowing up mosques. Just today a Baghdad university was bombed killing 65, targetting a mostly Shiite community.
Religion is supposed to keep people's faith. But no sect in any of these Arab countries have yet manifested their belief in faith. Particularly faith in achieving harmony through more peaceful means. Everyone just seems to be so fixated in doctrine while hundreds are dying everyday.
Here's a good one. Imad Moustapha, Syria's ambassador to the U.S. said that the Bush administration has misled key Lebanese leaders into believing that Syria is not acting in the best of Lebanon's interests. Now I've actually heard Lebanese folks comment (without the help of Bush) that Syria's filled its pot of gold full of Lebanon's resources and that it's high time that they disengage themselves and set Lebanon free from its excessive politics and commercial endeavors. Bush's spectacular administration can't forever be the scapegoat for bad decisions made in the Middle East. It's not like everyone except the U.S. had their hands bound and mouths taped shut that they couldnt make a difference in their own right.
Yes, yes. Easier said than done. But still. No matter what, if the Middle East wanted significant change, it shouldnt all depend on government. It should come from individuals. Even Arabs amongst themselves have suffered the pains of their own cultural ills but are too proud to even utter the words gender or racial discrimination, social caste, bigotry. Is there any one out their proud enough to face themselves in the mirror and realize their own faults? Anyone willing to eat their slice of humble pie and admit that their culture has major issues as well?